Heart never hurt a child ten things to remind parents mouths mercy, do not hurt the child's heart and then language, ruin the child's future. At the same time to tell their parents, the child should say, and what parents should do in a positive, positive, healthy, beautiful child perspective, certainly children, praise the child, encouraging children.
[first sentence], You do not want the child to be ] Children learn to talk with the child
talk back to the time when children and their parents will be more shocking silence
[third sentence], > Do not play
[fourth sentence] br> stop the empty talk
respect for criticism is the best way to
child, be careful not to hurt the child
tolerant children br>
[the fifth sentence], jump to touch or how to help children the most effective
let the child know what they are because of the lovely
Let the child know that learning is a matter of his own children's scores
Do not look too important < br>
[sixth sentence] > What a fool!
educate their children is sparse and not blocking
tell them to do something every day
[eighth sentence],
straighten the balance
never expected the children said: You can not make a confident
children need parents appreciated the willingness to be affirmed
kids a chance and let him get rid of the child to exercise
shadow hearts of inferiority
[ninth sentence] mode, the child should be individualized
not a piece of paper, not free to apply
not let your child suffer, The key to good to let children learn what
game with their own children grow at their own pace in his
[X sentence]
child's favorite way to
what kind of education their children play with heart on study
children to learn in a relaxed environment appropriate
children to play with video games < br> can not be deprived of the power of kids to play to play a child's self-confidence
; today's children lack most of the 4 aspects:
1, the lack of happy childhood;
; 2, the lack of spiritual culture;
3, the lack of family communication;
; 4, the lack of a sense of accomplishment.
to the father and mother of five advice: < br>
1, important than the success growth;
2, has experienced important than ranking;
; 3, to pay than to give important;
4, an important dialogue than confrontation;
; 5, motivate important than the accused.
* 1, the growth important than the success
- afford to lose a child the most successful
< br> Now the parents have a strange phenomenon, what are dry for the child, that child's task is to study. I organized a summer camp, a small child watching boiled eggs in a daze, I said !, process, are arranged the cut into four pieces on the front of food, so do the old default result, but to attach importance to the growth process, take a good foot of the road, able to lose a child is the most successful child!
* 2, has experienced important than the ranking
- caused by over-indulgent incompetence
said children now bear the child psychology poor, can not afford setbacks, this is because parents do not give them through the mill, take the opportunity to failure and frustration. Can accommodate children, let their children be the last haven; can understand him, let him find the warmth and security, in a loss and no way, give him that way and not give him a wall.
* 3, to pay than to give important
- the children love the opportunity to
only give love a child , let them no sense of responsibility, it will only request. A laid-off workers know that children like to eat them, teeth bought from the market to see children eating with relish that he could not bear to Dongkuaizi, seeing the children have finished eating, my mother could not help but want to try one, the child said, Much spoiled, unlimited condone the growth of the child's selfishness, so that children are conscious of themselves, not others.
* 4, an important dialogue than confrontation
- Do not talk to kids parents For example talking about puppy love, many parents simply, brutally obstruction, forced to suppress.
adolescent children are at increased rapidly in the adult sense, but psychology is not mature period, he wants the respect of adults, but also the lack of basic trust of parents, so antagonistic strong psychological, spiritual peers towards the door only to open, this time the special needs of spiritual care that he needs to understand.
* 5, an important incentive than the accused
- enjoy the kids, telling him to express dissatisfaction with their children, demanding perfection, to bring the child's negative message to children sign of weakness, depression, and even world-weary mood. I was a child has two hobbies, one draw, 5 years old drew a big cock, my mother said: , I love painting, blackboard painting from one year to the third year, to jump the queue to farmers in rural newspapers, and later on to do the I'm an actor there. Results unfortunate thing happened: When I wear small pants, vest, hands behind the legs stand up straight after a teacher passed by me, gave me the once said, After that I think of dancing, then later on can not jump, and then later simply do not jump. So I said to the parents, the children grew up in, talent is not important is to have no interest and confidence. Do not see others, boldly cheered for the children, I believe that your child will create a miracle!
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